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Do You Ever Feel Unlovable?

Posted By Tamika on Aug 18, 2020

Ever wonder why everyone else is blissfully content in their relationships (and soaking up all the love) when it doesn’t seem possible for you? 

Ever blame yourself for the feeling of lacking love?

Maybe you see couples strolling in the park holding hands, or mushy Instagram posts of the perfect pairings and wonder why you’re the only one unsatisfied in your relationship. Maybe you’re longing for the love of a partner, or parent who’s unavailable or has passed, and you feel a hole in your soul from their absence. Or maybe you were raised by an overly critical parent and still carry the weight of thinking something is deeply wrong with you (there’s nothing wrong with you). Or maybe things are fine at home, but at work you answer to people who give favour to others over you. 

If you’ve ever felt unlovable, you are not alone. 

It’s okay to feel unlovable. It’s okay to name that feeling, too. 

This upside down world gives us so many opportunities to decide others are getting the love we can’t quite grasp. 

But what you see in the outer world (and on media) is not reality. It’s just not true. Everyone, at some time in their life, longs for deeper love—even the ones you think have it all. Everyone is going through their own invisible heartaches. 

Everyone faces heartache and self-doubt at one time or another. 

And everyone—including you—is lovable. 

We’ve pulled a little clip from our Meditation in the Modern Age teacher training to remind you just how loved you are. Practice this quick meditation to set your heart straight. 

Right now, at this very moment, someone is thinking about you with love in their heart. Including us.


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7 Comment(s)

Adrienne Lidicky on August 23, 2020
Thank you for the article, I found it very touching and much needed.
Caila on August 24, 2020
Thank you for guiding us to receive - this was very timely. I hope everyone right now can feel the love that is readily available to them and receive it.
Tamika on August 24, 2020
Sending that love right back to you, Caila! xx
Colleen T on August 24, 2020
Tamika, thank yo for this beautiful offering. It's just what I needed this morning! You appeared in my dreams last night. What I recall is your gentle, shining presence. Love to you, Colleen
Tamika on August 24, 2020
Awww Colleen, takes one to know one! I feel the same about you. Shine on, beautiful soul. xx
Bija on August 24, 2020
Mmmmmm, this felt so yummy and perfect—thank-you for sharing Practicing this meditation totally reset my mindset☮️ Sending Springs of Love to you
K-Bhav on August 24, 2020
Dear Tamika - I sat this morning to experience this meditation, and my cat AnnaLee instantly jumped on to my lap. She is not a cuddler, but she responds strongly to the power of Spirit, and she stayed on my lap for the entire meditation, purring loudly. Her tail grew HUGE, which it often does when she is part of a practice involving great power. We both received such bliss in this - much love from me and my four-legged!

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